Attitude Setting in Life
Attitude is
the way one evaluates and perceives everything; so, it reflects in our personal
and professional life. Thus, we can say that it is attitude that shapes life.
If one lives
a life by neglecting attitude, a behavioral change occurs in all their actions,
leading to an internal conflict. While, everyone looks for a balanced
happiness – bliss without conflict.
Always keep
a check that LIFE gets along RIGHT Attitude - Attitude cannot be understood
from the language used, nor from body language and expression, it is seen from
the result of the actions. Success is what is created by each action that
results in adding more and more value to one’s life, like climbing a ladder, it
progresses systematically.
Attitude
towards Life is set based on the value system one acquires. Count your actions
that make life useful for many around as it is what is Life as far as I am
concerned. This was not my attitude when I was to earn for making my
life. When I was a student, my attitude was in learning, not just as I enjoyed
learning, but was as learning is required to make a life that helps in getting
a job that gives earning.
In life one
progresses along the attitude that may change according to focus. But all these
focus haven underlaying stream of connection, that is the real-life attitude –
not the focused one.
Attitude may
attract all along life that may not be of any focus and consequence, but as you
get along with people around someone may be watching you to see how you enjoy
making positive impacts; thus, you may get noticed too.
It is that
unseen component of attitude, which you may call it as the divine spiritual
component undefeated in any situation. This is the credit and soothing
ownership of individuality that makes life blissful, connecting others to
attract to get appreciation, may not be just appreciation, but love from all
those who are dealing in day-to-day basis.
Attitude has
Physical – Emotional – Intellectual – Social – Spiritual Components. All of
these are inseparable and felt by the people and associated with psychological
aspect. Psychological aspects are shown through behavior that is based on
character – but as social being it is conditioned based on the situations and
focus. Evaluating situations to modify the behavior is the key attitude that
makes one successful, smart, and practical.
At times
attitude may not result in success as it also depends on the skill and
environment / opportunity one has around, a follow-up action around attitude to
create the environment and development of skill will determine performance.
That will make present moments enjoyable, may be the base of many more actions
ahead. Thus, by creating such moments connecting many around, one gets a
cherishable experience. In fact, these are experiences to create more
opportunities and improve skills and adding attitude. It is all seen more
cyclic and highly performing. It gives life a greater dimension of fullness by
spreading hope for many who will be crossing and a few who will be interacting
around.
LIFE becomes
thus a flow of actions – actions that will be useful for many around. Creative,
learning, loving to make:
LIFE = Live (Learn) In Full Enjoyment.
Attitudes
are self-created; but can be molded and developed to govern the behavior. The
behavior – attitude is set based on the needs.
The contact
that can be with friends – family – relatives et.al. Identifying the best of
those who will be in tandem and harmonious with one will be that decides the
easy go in the attitude setting.
FAME - POWER
to influence is a desire that all humans have, the mode and the style in using
it could vary. Everyone wants to create their footprint – stamp – image – their
ways to be accepted by others around us. All want recognition, achieving that can
be either through power or can be through love, sharing and caring. At times,
one, if not in a good company will become a social critic and waste of time.
Good attitude is to be individual critic to rectify and resist from being so or
not interacting with them. This attitude may not be seen as acceptable in short
run but will find its longer term fruit.
Realizing
personal interest and keeping passion helps in shaping attitude, or it is
cyclic, if you have that attitude, you are bound to get it in shape. When you
have that in shape in your portfolio, make and see that all around you will
recognize it as you are confident, that is the best way to get out of
criticism. All critics are fertilized by the fear and lack of confidence in
you. Personality is that sense of self that one can show convincingly- with
courage and maturity to all those around you.
Learning to
ignore and create the space free without confusion is must to be happier in
life. This is not being social but avoiding conflicts. But in many situations’
relationships are so much entangled, one has no option than to get into
activities that are not of choice and are forced by those who are close to you,
yes make your points – at times may be harsh. That is boldness and courage, so
that you have not compromised. This could also lead to misunderstanding, but
this shows you are clear, have matured vision and stay with what you believe is
right. The path is clean only when all around you are wiser to know your wisdom
and attitude, else can be mistaken during frictions.
Prayers
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